Tips and Techniques on how to have Great Sex with Hot and Sexy Older Woman

When you think of sex, do you feel like a lot is expected of you as a man? Do you feel like you are the one who determines how good or great the sex will be? Should it be shared responsibility between two consenting adults? Unfortunately, or fortunately, depending on how you look at it, sex depends a lot on the way a man steers it. It is a big responsibility, but it is a learning process if you are willing to make concessions to make your woman sexually satisfied.

Getting a woman to be emotionally comfortable with you is the one way to guarantee she will enjoy intimacy with you. To women, sex is not the act of penetration. It is so much more. It does not matter the age of the woman, preparing a woman for sex might as well begin from the moment she wakes up to whenever it is you actually get to have sex with her.

With older women, you have your work cut out for you. Most cougars know what they expect during sex and many will actually tell you what they like and how they like it. This does not however negate the fact that despite her age, she may actually be shy initially when it comes to intimacy with you. She will need the same attention you would give any woman you are interested in.

Ways to guarantee Great Sex with a Cougar

There is nothing extraordinary about it

Do not be overwhelmed thinking sex with a cougar is unique or very different from sex with a younger woman. Bottom line is she is a woman with the same needs as other women. Her sex drive may be higher or not. It varies with every woman. No two women are the same so you should not approach sex with her the same way you did with other women.

Foreplay is a normal and expected norm in intimacy

Prepare her emotionally as much as possible during the day. Even if you are not together, let her know you are thinking of her and the things you will do to her later. Take her to dinner and maintain physical contact as much as possible. A cougar may not be comfortable with public display of affection, but you can discreetly hold her hand and any other part of her body that she is comfortable with. Make sure it is nothing embarrassing as her mood will certainly go out the window if she feels cheapened.

Initiate intimacy

Do not be fooled by her age. A woman likes it when her man yearns for her. She may even have anxiety thinking she is not desirable because of her age. Show her you actually cannot wait to be with her as many times as you can. Create confidence in her. Knowing that you love having sex with her will make her take the lead once in a while. It is also okay for her to lead sometimes. However, do not slack and leave it all to her. A cougar also needs reassurance on her appearance and its effects on you.

Avoid monotony

Just like men, women also get bored with predictable sex. The advantage is cougars are more open to trying out new things plus they have quite a bit of experience sexually. She may be willing to try out sex toys. You know what she likes, surprise her whenever you can. Be open to her fantasies and suggestions. Show her that you are in tune with her needs and responses. Introduce sexual positions she is likely to enjoy. However, be sure she enjoys them. You do not want to turn her off by insisting on positions that require a contortionist.

Communication before, during and after sex

Communicating with a cougar before sex is important. Ask her what she expects, what her experiences have been like and what she her fantasies are. Look into her eyes as you communicate. This creates a connection with her. Do not under estimate the impact eye contact has on her sexually. Moan and let her know you are enjoying intimacy with her. Let her know you are enjoying what she is doing to you. After sex, most men will fall asleep. It is normal. However, if you can, maintain communication with her. Lull her with continuous communication of how good it was.

Be open to learn

When you enter that bedroom, forget your ego. You will most likely find out you do not know some things when it comes to sex. Many young women will let you do whatever you want. Be the lead. A cougar will likely want to teach you a few things about a woman’s body, her body. Be ready to listen and do exactly what she wants. Think of it as training, only you get something out of it. Fact is, if she enjoys sex with you, you will enjoy it too.

Sex and intimacy are integral when in a relationship with a cougar. She is probably accomplished in other aspects of her life. She has a career she is in control of; she is in charge of her finances and is a leader in practically everything in her life. Sometimes she probably wishes someone could be in charge of some aspects. Well, this is your chance to be in charge of her bedroom. Be the dominant man she yearns for. Make sex with her an experience she would want to repeat every day and you may just have her in your life for a long time.

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